I remember writing about both my Thailand trips on Just Me.
I also remember mentioning that a cousin asked me how Thailand was and that I responded with, 'it was GREAT and I want to live there'!
This was over 10 years ago.
After that, I would be made privy, progressively and over some years, as to why a lot of cis straight Indian men (or perhaps it's just all cis straight men) from Malaysia love taking trips to Thailand.
So the missing puzzle to this anecdote is the way the (male) cousin replied.
You know that congratulatory sleazy smile toxic cishet men give other toxic cishet men upon revealing their sexcapades?? I got that respond along with the words, "Ohhh, you had fun ah???? Ok Ok!"
And one day, years later, the former situation wherein I zealously announce my affinity to Thailand and how this man replied, came to mind, coinciding with the latter revelation of men's reason to visit Thailand.
And then it hit me....
Oh..... he thought that I....
Bless this Christian asshole!
Fucking dickhead doesn't know I'm a non-binary gay ass cock-sucking sissy!