What do you call a man, who, having found out that you get chills and trembles when being intimate, does the following;
First sits next to you, close enough to touch but not too close to trigger your anxiety response, until you calmed down, for a good 3 to 4 minutes.
Holds your hand and realises you are beginning to tremble again so continues to hold your hand for the next 5 minutes saying things like, it's ok, nothing to be afraid of here and talks random things while still being cognisant to not turn you off.
Comes in closer and just sits next to you in a loving side embrace for your trembles to subside for a couple more minutes.
Then gives you a sensual hug all the while making sure he isn't doing anything too fast to trigger your anxiety and trembles.
Slowly begin to explore kissing and in the midst of doing so realises your trembles and chills began again so slows down and just hugs you tighter.
And when your anxieties are completely calm gives you the best sex of your life!
After all this was said and done.
Ghosts you.
I must have been terrible!
And, no, haven't had sex recently.
This was my last time.
Yea, that one in 2018.